Each of us would love to be that one person who
would like to be appreciated for the positive vibes that are exhibited around
our surroundings.
Little do we know that it is not a
herculean task at all. The following steps will help you to be a pleasant
person around whom everybody would love to hang around.
1. Be humble. Understand that we all are humans. You
might be rich or poor, black or white, short or tall etc. But above all we are
all humans which implies we are all emotional beings. So treat others the
way you would like to be treated.
2. Don't regret. The outside is a reflection of what's on
the inside. We all are rational beings and it is very human to do irrational
things at times. That's human nature. However it does not mean that we regret
what we did in the past. Every experience is a learning which teaches you what
to do and what not to do in future. So be proud that you have learnt a lesson
on your own. We don't want any baggage, we wanna be free.
3. Lend a helping hand with a smile. Be it offering a
seat to an elderly person or tossing the football back to the young
child, the inner self satisfaction you get by doing so is
priceless. Once you do so you will feel good about yourself.
4. Forgive and forget. Dwelling in the past and cultivating
grudges will only make one miserable on the inside which will reflect on the
outside. To have a pleasant vibe around you it is better to let go. When you
forgive and let go, your heart becomes light and rejoices cause of the
baggage clearance! It pumps more blood and leaves you glowing.
5. Encourage others and yourself. If you cannot
encourage, its ok but don't ever put anyone down. That attracts negative vibe
towards you. Throw flowers at others if you wish flowers to be thrown at you
and not thorns. You never know a word of encouragement may make a big difference
not only to your life but also others.
6. Be grateful. Thank God and the Universe for yourself,
your parents, your friends, your clothes, jobs, food, home etc and every small
thing that makes a difference. If possible express your gratitude for something
every day. It will make you appreciate life.
In the end of this article I can only say this great man
who is always pleasant and doing things excellently that is none other
than our pope Francis.Let us learn from him.
Let us also have the same happiness within us.

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